He Doses off every Time we Make Love

​Dear Emmanuel, 

I’ve been married to my husband for a long time now. And while our sex life has been incredibly good for the most part, the fire seems to have died down recently. Throughout 2017, I cannot remember the last time that I truly enjoyed my husband in the bedroom. He tries to avoid having sex. And when he does try, he doses off while we’re doing the business. I can’t tell you how utterly frustrating this is. And the most painful part is the fact that he doesn’t even seem to care about how this affects me

What should I do? 

_Sex-starved and angry wife. 

Emmanuel’s Response 

Dear  …Wife, 

First of all, I’d like to think that contrary to what you think, your husband is quite concerned about this problem. As a matter of fact, it is probably because he does care that he doesn’t want to do the nasty so as not to disappoint you. Truth be told, no man ever wants to flop in bed. It is more of less the ultimate source for a man. 

That said, let’s talk about a few reasons why he his bedroom scores are dwindling by your standards. Stress!  This is the greatest killer of a man’s sexual prowess, especially so of the man is of a particular age. That said, you may need to find out if anything is stressing your husband out, and then find ways to get him to calm down. 

That reminds me-  you may want to talk about this problem with your husband. I say this because somehow, I can’t help but think you haven’t. Talk to him about it, and let him tell you the challenges he might be having. After all,  a problem shared is a problem half-solved. 

In conclusion, you may get frustrated with your hubby over this, but please do not be angry. This is a problem that can be easily solved, especially so if you can find out what really is responsible for it. 

Here is wishing you more sex in your love.

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